Chapter 11

Projects, approvals and conflict

You don't run the church alone. Big building work needs the approval of whoever your tradition says decides, and some changes, above all taking out cherished pews, start a fight. This chapter explains how decisions are made and how to get your way without losing people.

What needs approval

Once the church is open, building work of $25,000 or more in one go needs approval. Work of $25,000 or more is a renovation; work of $150,000 or more is new construction. A single item, however dear (an organ, a steeple), counts as a renovation.

A church that starts on an empty lot, as a sandbox does, needs no approval until it first passes the building check. Buying more land always does.

The building preview tells you before you commit, for example: "Needs the members' vote (in 4 weeks); paid for only if approved." Until it's decided, the work waits as a proposal, unpaid, and can be withdrawn. If by the time it's decided the work can't be done as proposed, it lapses.

Church → Projects at Calvary Baptist: renovations and new construction both need the members' vote, and a steeple and bells waits with the members until 1 February, with Withdraw beside it.
Church → Projects at Calvary Baptist: renovations and new construction both need the members' vote, and a steeple and bells waits with the members until 1 February, with Withdraw beside it.

Who decides

WhoHowWhen
The pastor or priestGoes ahead at onceNow
The board (session, council, vestry)The seven longest-serving members voteTwo weeks on
The membersEvery member of 16 and over votesFour weeks on
The bishop or presbyteryReviews the finances and standingSix weeks on
TraditionRenovationsNew constructionHow
BaptistMembersMembersMajority vote
CatholicThe priestThe bishopAuthority
LutheranChurch council (board)MembersMajority vote
PentecostalMembersMembersMajority vote
OrthodoxThe priestThe bishopAuthority
QuakerThe meetingThe meetingConsensus: no more than a tenth may stand against it

Getting a yes

Cherished pews and conflict

Pews that have stood a year, or that came with the church, are cherished. Taking them out starts a conflict.

Church → Worship after taking out one oak pew at Calvary Baptist: 29 people opposed, a members' vote set for two weeks on, and the offer to hold listening sessions first.
Church → Worship after taking out one oak pew at Calvary Baptist: 29 people opposed, a members' vote set for two weeks on, and the offer to hold listening sessions first.

Changing the seating without losing people

  1. Consult first. Hold listening sessions (Church → Worship, once per conflict) takes 40% off everyone's opposition.
  2. Do it in one go. Take out everything you mean to at once, so it's one fight, not several.
  3. Or don't take them out. Add chairs in new space instead.
  4. Change your mind. Putting everything back before it comes to a head ends the conflict.

Pews you placed yourself less than a year ago go quietly.